Fear O Fear...

I just read an article which accomplishes that people who get angry more often, are very much prone to their fears. Such a strange thing it is. It conveys that it’s a human psychology, that if you have a fear of something and you see that thing almost happening in front you then you lose your temper. Like if you want something to happen in a particular fashion and it doesn’t work the way you thought, you get irritated, which results in your anger. It does happen with me all the time.

Fear, Anger, Impatience, Anxiety all are part of a human’s lifecycle. Everyone is dealing with their own fears. Fear of being left alone, fear of losing someone, fear of not being loved by someone you love, fear of not being liked among a group of people, fear of rejection and many more. This fear is root cause of so many things in our life. Your entire life revolves around it.  Fear does affect my anger up to a certain level.  I had a discussion regarding this with one of my friend. I was not a morning person since my childhood. I used to get so much mad on my friends and family for waking me up in the morning. But after I had a discussion with my friend on this topic that I get irritated when someone wakes me up, he simply said that you have some kind of fear or tension that’s why it happens with you. I first refused to accept this. But later on, when I gave it a thought, it was true. I was dealing with lot of fears…  The moment I stopped doing that I became a morning person since that day itself.

So basically it was because of my own fears. I do have some fears now also, but I have learnt to deal with them. It does have a certain kind of effect on your mind when you take a mental note of things from your peers which your mind already knows. I do get restless sometimes but as they say, few things are not in your hands and it’s good to let it go. If something is meant to happen, it will… Someday… Somewhere… You never know!!! 

Amen!!!